February 14, 2010

Happy Valentine’s Day!


Super old cam pic from when I made hundreds of wax paper hearts for mobiles that I put up over our windows for Valentine’s Day.

Valentine’s Day has always been one of my favourite holidays, even though these days I don’t do a whole lot for it. In past years, I’ve been known to do special creative projects for the holiday, such as the mobile pictured above, or I’ve sent out Valentines to my online friends, but as I’ve gotten older (and poorer and busier)  these things have fallen by the wayside. That’s okay though, because I know it won’t always be like this and I’ll be able to do more in future years. (Kind of like my attitude toward Halloween. I want to be one of those families that decorates their house and gives out awesome candy but alas, we don’t get any trick-or-treaters where we are and couldn’t afford to do it even if we did.)

Anyway, Blake & I aren’t doing anything special today, especially because he, Wes & I seem to have a particularly nasty stomach bug of some kind and our bathroom has practically had a revolving door all weekend.

Valentine’s Day means two things, however. It means that there’s only two weeks until my birthday and everyone should get me lots & lots of presents and it also means that there’s one month until Steak & Blowjob Day. Since my article on giving head is linked on the Steak & BJ Day website, it means that my site is currently getting twice the traffic it normally gets and by the time the actual holiday rolls around, my traffic will have tripled. That’s a whole lot of new people around here reading my crap! So hello new people! Welcome to Sunnyland! Glad to have ya. :o)

Another thing Valentine’s Day means, to me and some of my friends at least, is that it’s Love Your Vulva day, or V-Day for short, something that we’ve been celebrating all month over at Buttercup. Buttercup’s actually been pretty hoppin’ all month, you should pop over there and check it out. So far this month we’ve had articles on VDay.org, Katie’s sexually repressed upbringing, how chicks dig porn, Blake’s experiences growing up in a penis-centric world, an article on our featured site, Camwhores.com, an article on vulva art, phenomenal woman, Holly Hughes, who you’ve probably never heard of but probably should, and finally an article by Jade about some of the strangest vulva-centric products we’ve ever seen – with much more to come during the rest of the month! We’ve also added two new groups to the mix. S/he is a group about sexism and so far the conversations have been really interesting and enlightening and we also added a group for sports, which needs a better name than “Sports”, so if you have any ideas on that, we’d love to hear them! Along with the new groups, we’ve also redesigned the front page a little bit and we have plans to redesign it further for next month. Lots of changes thanks to the feedback we got from the Buttercup community at the end of January! Thanks readers!

So, things over at Buttercup are doing good. You should take a peek if you get the chance. :o)

I realize this month I’ve been fairly quiet as far as blog posts go and there are a million reasons for that, namely preparing for and celebrating Wes’ 7th birthday, but also I’ve been hard at work painting ACEOs for my Etsy shop since art is pretty much all I can do when I’m in the kind of pain I’ve been in for the past couple of weeks due to endometriosis issues. I plan on doing nothing but working on ACEOs until this batch is finished because so far, they’ve proven to be pretty popular items in my Etsy shop, having sold half of the first batch I put up 2 weeks ago with the other half getting plenty of views. This first batch that I put up was of gold & black and purple & gold cards and right now all that’s left is the gold ones. The ones I’m working on are more purple & gold ones, some green & gold ones and a whole bunch of red & gold ones. I’ll, of course, make a post when this batch is ready and up on Etsy. In the meantime, you should take a look at the gold & black ones I have up there currently as I think they turned out rather well and hey, these things are supposed to be collectible, so if you buy a gold & black one this month, there’s no reason you can’t buy a red & gold one next month! *cough*

As I’m reading the Etsy forums, I’m learning that ideally what you’re supposed to do is market to people outside of Etsy and bring them into your shop. For that reason, I spent yesterday afternoon designing Moo cards with my artwork on the front of them and my website addresses on the back to include a couple with Etsy orders. By including more than one, it means the buyer will probably keep one and potentially give the other one(s) to friends. I’m also working on getting the funds for another promotional item, which I’ll write more about after I have the money to order them and actually send them out to people. If all goes as planned though, they’re pretty cool – or at least I think so – plus they have sentimental value, which again, I’ll write more about when I actually have them in my possession. (I’m only 1 ACEO sale away from being able to order them!)

And I guess that’s all I really have to say at the moment. It’s been a busy month and it’s going to continue to be busy. My neighbour’s daughter, Ashley, is due to have her baby any day now, so since my neighbour (Judy) doesn’t have a camera, I’ve lent her mine and that’s why there haven’t been pictures of anything in my recent posts. Ashley was actually due like, 4 or 5 days ago, so she could literally pop any day now and I should get my camera back soon.

Okay, I hope you all have a wonderful Valentine’s Day! I’m off to watch the Olympics and work on these ACEOs.

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  1. jenny says:

    Omg – as a consistant and continuous researcher on what men like best when receiving a blowjob, I found your writings to be the best I’ve read yet and mirror most of the techniques picked up during my 20 ish years of research. Only one addition or difference that popped out is that you say to stick your tongue down at the end and I actually nudge the balls with my chin ever so subtly so the don’t know how or why but whatever you did felt really good.

    And on the valentines day topic…since I am here writing u probably guess…mine sucked. Hahaha….he says I give the best blow jobs ever and he got one the night before last and yet he didn’t do ANYTHING for christmas. I told him he had better make up for it on valentines day. That gave him over a month….and he didn’t even get me a card! I asked him for breakfast and got yelled at.
    He says he isn’t cheating and really doesn’t have the time to…so what the hell. I tell him I question how he feels and he says he knows he loves me and that’s what matters. How do I get it across to him that I have about had it! What with crying and nothing at all from anyone for christmas, then all he had to do was be romantic, not spend most of the day away from me saying the day isn’t over then disappear into the garage as it is. He says he loves me but, come on now…

    And on circumcision…I have had 2 boys (just turned 3 and 18 months) and neither was cut. My whole family, except my mom (we are the only 2, from england, not from america) gave me crap and wanted me to do it. It was a fight with my man too but NO WAY! I was not going to put anyone through that and my kids are taught to wipe with a wet wipe after going to the toilet. My 18 month old hates showers so I am extra focused on wiping and cleanliness after using the toilet.
    My sister and her husband were so vocal about their opinion during and after my first pregnancy. The same when we found out I was having another boy, then they found out they were pregnant with their son! They went on and on and being firm on circumcizing being the only option and how my kids were going to feel (embarrassed) with their turtle heads next to their son and then he was born and… yep he isn’t circumcized. I was so happy! Although it was only because they didn’t have the money to do it, whatever! He was left alone! That’s what matters to me cause I feel it is just unnecessary and unusual punishment to a baby – my man fought it so hard until I told him if he did that to them, he would have to go in, hold them down, and I was having NOTHING AT ALL to do with any part of it including post mutilkation…he would have to take care of any and everything until they healed – all protesting ended and here we are with 2 that have been educated in KEEPing their Peepers CLEAN!

    THANKS for your great writing…I really enjoyed these. Have bookmarked and will return. Keep up the great work!!!

    • Sunny says:

      Thanks for the compliments on the article. :o)

      I’m sorry your boyfriend was such a dick yesterday. That sucks, but I’ve definitely been there and I know how it feels. *hugs* Maybe it’s time to have a sit down conversation with him about how it hurts you when he acts like he doesn’t care…or maybe it’s too late for that. Either way, it sounds like he needs to change.

      Circumcision…I’m totally with ya. My son is cut but I did what you threatened and had absolutely nothing to do with it. I did, however, look after it afterward to make sure it healed okay because I didn’t have any other choice since I was the one changing his diapers while my husband was at work. I think it’s torture as well and if my son ever asks, I’ll make sure he knows I had nothing to do with it. (Although I doubt he’d ask.)

      Anyway, thanks for dropping by. :o) If you’re wondering why your comment is now one giant wall of text even though you separated your paragraphs, it’s because the comments on here are kinda wonky and you have to put in the [br] tag (but with pointy brackets <>) in between paragraphs for it to format correctly.